Start by asking the right questions and remember all of life is about relationships. First with yourself; then with others; other forms of life; with your ideas. Here is a place to begin according to Deepak Chopra, Who am I? Why am I here? What do I want? And to clarify---Do I really want this... (name it, claim it, tame it)? What is my next step? Okay now that you have a clearer picture of what you would like to be, to do, to have, it is time to set goals. S.M.A.R.T goals. SPECIFIC---MEASURABLE---ATTAINABLE---REALISTIC----TIME or by when. You must spend time everyday cultivating your dreams/goals; make changes when necessary; be grateful and celebrate each accomplishment even the ones that may seem insignificant; take action from the heart it is the seed of motivation and flows with love or some may say intuition. The heart knows it doesn't need to follow logic or requires proof it JUST KNOWS.
BE aware of dream killers--those who kill your vibe and stunt your flow, be assertive and let them go!
Action Step: What will you do today to get closer to the life you deserve. "All things are possible."